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Decidedly Debbie Coaching

You haven't lost yourself. You just need help finding your way back.

I'm here to help you remember who you are beneath the noise, the roles, and the running. Through coaching, energy work, and soul-aligned guidance, we clear what's in the way so you can step fully into the woman you are becoming.

You've got this. And I've got you.

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What People are Saying

  • Debbie created a space where I could honestly question what I was taught without fear or shame. Through this process, I began to untangle beliefs that never felt like mine and reconnect with a spirituality that feels true to me. For the first time, I feel empowered to trust my voice and follow my own path

    -Steph, USA

  • As my life coach, Debbie helped me to be a better version of myself. I am more thoughtful, organized, and balanced.

    -Sarah, USA

  • Working with Debbie has completely changed how I show up in my life. I’ve learned to set healthy boundaries without guilt, honor my needs, and live with greater confidence. The personal growth I've experienced through her coaching has been truly life changing.

    - Jennifer, USA

Upcoming Events

Featured
The Divine Feminine Series
Sep 20
The Divine Feminine Series

What does it mean to belong fully to yourself?

Join Cassandra and me as we explore Artemis, the Greek goddess of the wild, the hunt, and fierce independence. Through her myths and symbolism, we’ll uncover what Artemis can teach us today about trusting our instincts, protecting what is sacred, honoring our boundaries, and staying true to who we are.

Come explore the wild, wise, sovereign feminine within you.. Join us live on Zoom to be part of the discussion, or catch the replay in our Facebook group and on YouTube.Cost is free. register here

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Soul Fam Zoom
Oct 4
Soul Fam Zoom

Join us for our monthly event designed to foster connection, sharing, and support. It’s a safe space where we come together to uplift one another, exchange insights, and hold space for personal growth. Whether you're looking for community or simply want to share your journey, you’re welcome to join this circle of kindred spirits.

cost FREE register here

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Mindful Gathering Monthly Live
Oct 10
Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

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Join me each month for a live gathering where we come together to explore mindfulness practices that help align, heal, and empower your authentic self. Through connection, reflection, and healing, we create space for personal growth and transformation in a supportive community.

each session is $17 via Zoom, clients 18+

Cost $17 click here

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Group Reiki
Oct 21
Group Reiki

Reiki is an ancient healing practice that harnesses universal life force energy to promote physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. As a trusted and experienced practitioner, Debbie brings her passion for healing and her mastery of Reiki to help you unlock your body's innate healing abilities. In the group setting, Debbie directs Reiki energy towards the group intending to balance and harmonize their energy, promote relaxation, alleviate stress, and support the body's natural healing processes. The energy can be sent simultaneously to all members and/or directed individually. 8 participants maximum

Cost $17 register here

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The Divine Feminine Series
Oct 25
The Divine Feminine Series

Join Debbie and Cassandra for a monthly Zoom conversation exploring the divine feminine across time, tradition, and culture. Together we’ll look at the women of the Bible who were diminished, silenced, or erased, and uncover their wisdom and presence. Our discussions will expand into other traditions and belief systems, highlighting divine feminine figures and what they mean for us today. This is a space for open-hearted dialogue, spiritual discovery, and reclaiming the power of the feminine in sacred history and beyond. Join us live on Zoom to be part of the discussion, or catch the replay in our Facebook group and on YouTube.

Cost is free. register here

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Soul Fam Zoom
Nov 1
Soul Fam Zoom

Join us for our monthly event designed to foster connection, sharing, and support. It’s a safe space where we come together to uplift one another, exchange insights, and hold space for personal growth. Whether you're looking for community or simply want to share your journey, you’re welcome to join this circle of kindred spirits.

cost FREE register here

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Mindful Gathering Monthly Live
Nov 14
Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

Check back soon for the selected topic.

Join me each month for a live gathering where we come together to explore mindfulness practices that help align, heal, and empower your authentic self. Through connection, reflection, and healing, we create space for personal growth and transformation in a supportive community.

each session is $17 via Zoom, clients 18+

Cost $17 click here

Read more →
Group Reiki
Nov 18
Group Reiki

Reiki is an ancient healing practice that harnesses universal life force energy to promote physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. As a trusted and experienced practitioner, Debbie brings her passion for healing and her mastery of Reiki to help you unlock your body's innate healing abilities. In the group setting, Debbie directs Reiki energy towards the group intending to balance and harmonize their energy, promote relaxation, alleviate stress, and support the body's natural healing processes. The energy can be sent simultaneously to all members and/or directed individually. 8 participants maximum

Cost $17 register here

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Upcoming Courses

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Reclaiming Your Spiritual Voice

Were you taught to follow the rules but never ask the questions?

This course is for you.
If you’re healing from religious harm...
If you’re trying to untangle guilt from truth...
If you’re craving a spiritual path that’s yours and yours alone...

Let’s clear the noise and come home to what feels real.

Learn more
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Learn Usui Reiki Level I & Level II

Are you ready to deepen your connection with energy, healing, and your true self?

Learn the foundations of Reiki energy healing and receive your Reiki attunements to connect with universal life force energy.

Whether you’re seeking personal healing, spiritual growth, or a way to help others, Reiki can open the door to new possibilities.

Learn more

Stay Connected

Ongoing Support for Your Journey

Choose the level of support that fits your path, from inspiration and resources to guided healing and deeper community connection. My membership offerings are designed to nurture your growth, empower your voice, and keep you supported every step of the way.

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A Little Dose of Debbie weekly blog
$5.00
Every month

A weekly spark of insight, mindful musings, and soulful prompts. Your weekly dose of clarity and care straight from the heart of Decidedly Debbie.

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Mindful Gathering Membership
$17.00
Every month

Come as you are. Grow as you’re meant to. Join us for monthly gatherings, stay uplifted with weekly inspiration, and experience authentic connection as we walk the path of aligned living together.

✓ Monthly event via zoom ($17 value)
✓ Little Dose of Debbie weekly blog ($5 value)
✓ Membership page with access to benefits and replays
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Thrive Together Life Group
$88.00
Every month

Thrive Together is a monthly group coaching membership for women ready to stop putting themselves last. Twice a month you gather for live sessions on self-trust, discernment, and embodiment, plus a monthly Mindful Gathering workshop and a weekly blog to keep you rooted in between. $88/month, a standing commitment to yourself.

✓ Small group coaching twice a month ($88 value)
✓ Access to the monthly live event ( $17 value)
✓ Access to the weekly blog ( $5 value)
✓ Discount of 25% on courses and individual coaching plans
✓ Membership page with access to benefits and replays

Did you miss my last Mindful Gathering event?

You can still catch me on a replay!

The replay is now available.

If you felt the pull but couldn’t make it live, you can now watch it on your own time and still receive the depth, reflection, and tools shared in the space.

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Free Resources

Free Resources

free coping skills guide simple steps to wellness

Life can bring about challenges and stressors that affect our mental and emotional well-being. Fortunately, there are effective coping skills that can help us navigate through difficult times. Here's a guide highlighting five valuable coping techniques.

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