Debbie Merced | Life Coach & Spiritual Healer for Personal Transformation

Decidedly Debbie Coaching

As an experienced life coach, I am here to help you reclaim your sense of purpose, reignite motivation, and restore connection to your true self. With expert guidance, I empower you to establish clear direction and achieve lasting fulfillment in every aspect of your life, unlocking your full potential for success and genuine happiness.

You’ve got this.

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Sanctuary for the Soul Spiritual Community

I passionately believe in the transformative power of community, dedicating myself to crafting inclusive, welcoming spaces for everyone regardless of background or belief. As an ordained minister, Master Reiki healer, and spiritual coach, I offer inspired guidance, support, and empowering encouragement. My mission is to help individuals and groups overcome life's challenges and unlock their unique spiritual journey.

What People are Saying

  • Debbie created a space where I could honestly question what I was taught without fear or shame. Through this process, I began to untangle beliefs that never felt like mine and reconnect with a spirituality that feels true to me. For the first time, I feel empowered to trust my voice and follow my own path

    -Steph, USA

  • As my life coach, Debbie helped me to be a better version of myself. I am more thoughtful, organized, and balanced.

    -Sarah, USA

  • Working with Debbie has completely changed how I show up in my life. I’ve learned to set healthy boundaries without guilt, honor my needs, and live with greater confidence. The personal growth I've experienced through her coaching has been truly life changing.

    - Jennifer, USA

Why Work with Debbie?

  • Coaching

    The ideal choice if you want a personalized plan that is tailored to your goals and lifestyle.

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  • Courses

    Small group courses including Reiki level I & II and Healing the Mother Wound.

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  • Reiki Healing

    A gentle, but powerful way to holistically bring your body, mind and spirit back into balance.

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  • Public Speaker

    A genuine passion for sharing knowledge creates presentations that are informative and deeply impactful.

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  • Events

    Events including mindfulness workshops, reiki healing, and guided meditations.

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  • Officiant

    Inclusive and creative weddings, vow renewal ceremonies, funerals, and house blessings.

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Stay Connected

Ongoing Support for Your Journey

Choose the level of support that fits your path, from inspiration and resources to guided healing and deeper community connection. My membership offerings are designed to nurture your growth, empower your voice, and keep you supported every step of the way.

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A Little Dose of Debbie weekly blog
$5.00
Every month

A weekly spark of insight, mindful musings, and soulful prompts. Your weekly dose of clarity and care straight from the heart of Decidedly Debbie.

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Mindful Gathering Membership
$17.00
Every month

Come as you are. Grow as you’re meant to. Join us for monthly gatherings, stay uplifted with weekly inspiration, and experience authentic connection as we walk the path of aligned living together.

✓ Monthly event via zoom ($17 value)
✓ Little Dose of Debbie weekly blog ($5 value)
✓ Membership page with access to benefits and replays
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Thrive Together Life Group
$88.00
Every month

Through meaningful discussions, book studies, and heart-centered conversations, we cultivate a space where authenticity thrives.

✓ Small group coaching twice a month ($88 value)
✓ Access to the monthly live event ( $17 value)
✓ Access to the weekly blog ( $5 value)
✓ Discount of 25% on courses and individual coaching plans
✓ Membership page with access to benefits and replays

Upcoming Events

Featured
Mindful Gathering Monthly Live
Oct 11
Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

Mindful Gathering Monthly Live-Reclaiming Your Authority

Have you ever said yes when your body whispered no?
Felt responsible for others’ feelings at the cost of your own peace?
Or struggled with the guilt that follows when you finally try to set a boundary?

This workshop is for the part of you that’s ready to stop shrinking.
For the part that wants to reclaim space, voice, time, and truth.

Join me for a powerful, heart-centered gathering where we’ll explore:

  • The difference between protective walls and self-respecting boundaries

  • What happens when we abandon ourselves for approval, and how to stop

  • How to recognize where your energy is leaking and how to lovingly seal it

  • Tools for saying no without guilt and yes with full integrity

  • A guided meditation to reconnect with your inner authority

This isn’t just about drawing lines.
It’s about returning to your center.
It’s about remembering that you are allowed to take up space, speak your truth, and honor your needs without apology.

Come as you are. Leave more grounded, more clear, and more in tune with what you’re no longer available for.

via Zoom, clients 18+

Cost $17 click here

Soul Fam Zoom
Oct 12
Soul Fam Zoom

Join us for our monthly event designed to foster connection, sharing, and support. It’s a safe space where we come together to uplift one another, exchange insights, and hold space for personal growth. Whether you're looking for community or simply want to share your journey, you’re welcome to join this circle of kindred spirits.

cost FREE register here

The Divine Feminine Series
Oct 19
The Divine Feminine Series

Join Debbie and Cassandra for a monthly Zoom conversation exploring the divine feminine across time, tradition, and culture. Together we’ll look at the women of the Bible who were diminished, silenced, or erased, and uncover their wisdom and presence. Our discussions will expand into other traditions and belief systems, highlighting divine feminine figures and what they mean for us today. This is a space for open-hearted dialogue, spiritual discovery, and reclaiming the power of the feminine in sacred history and beyond. Join us live on Zoom to be part of the discussion, or catch the replay in our Facebook group and on YouTube.

Cost is free. register here

Upcoming Courses

Learn Usui Reiki Level I & Level II

Are you ready to deepen your connection with energy, healing, and your true self?

Learn the foundations of Reiki energy healing and receive your Reiki attunements to connect with universal life force energy.

Whether you’re seeking personal healing, spiritual growth, or a way to help others, Reiki can open the door to new possibilities.

Reclaiming Your Spiritual Voice

Were you taught to follow the rules but never ask the questions?

This course is for you.
If you’re healing from religious harm...
If you’re trying to untangle guilt from truth...
If you’re craving a spiritual path that’s yours and yours alone...

Let’s clear the noise and come home to what feels real.

The Divine Feminine Series

Join Debbie and Cassandra for a monthly Zoom conversation exploring the divine feminine across time, tradition, and culture. Together we’ll look at the women of the Bible who were diminished, silenced, or erased, and uncover their wisdom and presence. Our discussions will expand into other traditions and belief systems, highlighting divine feminine figures and what they mean for us today. This is a space for open-hearted dialogue, spiritual discovery, and reclaiming the power of the feminine in sacred history and beyond. Join us live on Zoom to be part of the discussion, or catch the replay in our Facebook group and on YouTube.

Cost is free. register here

Free Resources

Free Resources

free coping skills guide simple steps to wellness

Life can bring about challenges and stressors that affect our mental and emotional well-being. Fortunately, there are effective coping skills that can help us navigate through difficult times. Here's a guide highlighting five valuable coping techniques.